Disclaimers: I am not a therapist. This talk is based on my opinion in regards to my personal life experiences. If you are feeling depressed please speak with the professionals at: National Suicide Prevention Hotline
Call 1.800.273.8255
What is perfectionism? “Perfectionism, in psychology, is a personality trait characterized by a person’s striving for flawlessness and setting high performance standards, accompanied by critical self-evaluations and concerns regarding others’ evaluations.” https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Perfectionism_(psychology)
Perfectionists often have self-abusive self-talk. This can cause a person to feel really bad and can lead to depression. In my talk I did not really go into solutions for this condition. Perhaps in a future video I will discuss what I do when my thoughts are negative. I hope someone finds this helpful.